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first meet with bachelor 3
| Thu, 09-29-2005 - 2:06pm |
Just got back from my first meet with bachelor # 3....we went to lunch... I didn't feel the spark. He is really a nice guy, and probably a great boyfriend, but there is no chemistry. At least not yet.
Ok- there is just this problem....he seems like he would make a great gay guy... which would make sense that he is easy to talk to... does that make sense?

Are you from the cincinnati area? Cause you just described the guy I dated a week ago and broke it off with! He was such a sweet guy and would make a great boyfriend for someone, but not for me. He did act feminine in some ways! I don't know how to describe it! I kept dating him because I didn't know if the chemistry would build or not and it didn't. I wouldn't force something that you can't see happening.
Layx2
This is a hard call but I would go out with him one to two more times to see if the chemistry builds. It probably will be difficult since you are feeling Bachelor #1 (am I correct?). Gee girl, you seem to have quite a few guys -- I'm jealous! (smile)
Mmh, that's interesting about the "gay" issue -- not sure what you mean about being easy to talk too that he should be gay? I don't get that!
Anyway, have fun, don't sweat it and when it feels right, you will know it!
Okay, I gotcha! (smile)
hmmmm no... b/c if Moris Chestnut or LL Cool J walked into my life... believe me...I would be into them a whole lot more!!!
The vibe I get from him is more of a friend vibe. I don't think there could be any kissing or sex... I am just not attracted to him....in THAT way. But he is very nice and extremely polite...
Any takers? I can set you up?
Girlfriend, I hear you.....but Morris Chestnut is mine; and prefer 50 over LL Cool J; although if he came my way I wouldn't decline. (smile)
Although this guy seems nice and extremely polite, does he have a lil roughness about him?? Hey I like a balance - corporate and street mixed together. (smile) I'm in Georgia, not sure where you are located.
You seem pretty grounded with your thoughts and hopefully when it happens to me (yep still hoping) that I will be too. In the past, like the other poster stated, once I'm feeling someone, it's difficult to meet other people. I mean I do, but I then view them as a "friend" only; but in all fairness, I have yet to have the opportunity to have met say 2-3 guys who gave me "butterflies".