First Meeting Cancellation?
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| Thu, 01-05-2006 - 3:51am |
I messaged a guy on a single site and gave him my MSN addy and we chatted on line. He said that he wanted to chat again after our first one and that he wanted to get to know me better. Then we proceeded to the phone, and talked alot about our jobs, family and similarities. We had alot in common and I found out he just lived down the street from me. He asked me out for coffee to meet in person this past weekend and then had to cancel because he injured himself from working out at the gym and ended up at emergency with pulled muscles. That was 2 days ago. He apologized and said that he really wanted to meet me and it wasnt an excuse. Some guys would do that but he wouldnt. We made arrangements to get together tonight. He would call me to make arrangements. I havent heard a word from him.
I called him and left a message to ask how he was and if we were still on for tonight. I suppose just to ease my mind because I was convinced he would have called me by now. This happened with another guy I met online. Same thing. We chatted and then proceeded to phone calls, set up a date and he cancelled at the last minute by email. Why does this happen? Anyone have the same thing happen and any explanations????

If there was only an answer....
-happens so many times, EVEN if the guy swears he's not the kind of guy to do that.....
Frustrating, isn't it? I hope he calls and everything works out for you.
Yeah, that solidified it. Sounds like a jerk to me.....you don't want those kinds of issues. Touchy, isn't he?
Be glad you found out now....I suppose