First meeting last night....

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Registered: 05-28-2005
First meeting last night....
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Sun, 11-06-2005 - 7:24pm

I met someone new last night and I honestly am more interested in him than any of the other 13 men I've met online during the last year and a half. It never happens to me. We spent 3 hours in Starbucks talking, laughing and getting to each other a bit.

When we left I gave him a hug. He said he had a good time and I told him I really did, too.

As usual I agonized all day wondering if I'd hear from him again. I've learned that I can't always read these guys. I was trying not to get my hopes up and remembered the thread about how long it takes an interested guy to contact you.

Well, he just emailed me and said he had a good time and hoped I did, too. He asked me if I liked movies....I guess that will be our next date.

But I still have to keep perspective here. It's so hard not to get my hopes up but in reality I could never see him again. Stranger things have happened.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 11-06-2005 - 7:34pm

Yea, I'm glad to hear you met someone you liked and that he contacted you. I hope he'll set a 2nd date soon.

It *is* hard to remain objective when you meet someone you like, but I find that a frequent refrain in my head of "time will tell" works relatively well ;-).

Sheri