follow up or not?
Find a Conversation
|Thu, 12-10-2009 - 9:48pm|
i'm new to match and it's been ok so far. i have gotten a lot of initial emails, most of them lame, but a few interesting. i have yet to initiate a message to anyone.
i recently got an email from a guy that peaked my interest - he was so cute! and his profile and message had a very relaxed feel which i like. we've exchanged about 4-5 emails total over 1.5 weeks. we were both very upfront about being interested in getting to know each other better and he suggested getting dinner. i agreed and suggested we look to the following week. he responded that "dinner next week sounds awesome" , but he wasn't sure of his schedule yet because his work schedule changes a lot. and then he gave me his number. so i replied that he should touch base once he has a better idea of his schedule and gave him my number. then radio silence. i noticed he didn't log on for the next five days, but he did last night and i have still yet to hear from him.
so, do i just forget it and move on or do i attempt at some kind of follow up? my instinct told me he was sincere in getting together so i find it very bizarre that he went mia. or is this just the way it works?