Friends!! Not Friends!!
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Friends!! Not Friends!!
| Tue, 01-25-2005 - 2:23pm |
I have told you before that OLD does not seem to work for me. I m not used to the idea of meeting people only once and that's it.
Although I did not meet anyone worth my interest I always told them:I dont see any chance for romance but we can always be friends if you are up to it.
Now I m starting to regret this. As I dont think this friendship thing works anymore with OLD. One guy for example, works at night so there is no way we could meet except on weekends. The past weekend I told him I will be out of town. Now it happens that on my way to the train station I met him on Sunday. So basicaly he knew that I left Sunday morning and not Saturday as I told him before. When he asked: how come you still here. I said change of plans my friend came late from the UK and I decided to meet him on Sunday instead of Sat. But the guy seemed very disturbed and I figured he thought I lied because I did not want to meet him on the weekend... I did not write to him after that and he did not write or call. So I guess he is mad. I dont see this behavior compliant with Friendship. I think he understood it like "lets be friend so you give me a chance to prove that I m worth being a boyfriend"... I m better off without this kind of friends in my life. Do you think I should tell him this or just Ghost or see if he can be a real friend...
thnx
J.
Although I did not meet anyone worth my interest I always told them:I dont see any chance for romance but we can always be friends if you are up to it.
Now I m starting to regret this. As I dont think this friendship thing works anymore with OLD. One guy for example, works at night so there is no way we could meet except on weekends. The past weekend I told him I will be out of town. Now it happens that on my way to the train station I met him on Sunday. So basicaly he knew that I left Sunday morning and not Saturday as I told him before. When he asked: how come you still here. I said change of plans my friend came late from the UK and I decided to meet him on Sunday instead of Sat. But the guy seemed very disturbed and I figured he thought I lied because I did not want to meet him on the weekend... I did not write to him after that and he did not write or call. So I guess he is mad. I dont see this behavior compliant with Friendship. I think he understood it like "lets be friend so you give me a chance to prove that I m worth being a boyfriend"... I m better off without this kind of friends in my life. Do you think I should tell him this or just Ghost or see if he can be a real friend...
thnx
J.

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I'm with Sheri. If he gets this bent out of shape from a simple misunderstanding and seems to be getting jealous of your time or doesn't beleive you when you tell him the truth, you shouldn't waste your time. There are better people to be friends with.
Sorry for the misunderstanding on my part. I didn't read the part that the plans had specifically changed just that you'd run into him on Sunday when he seemed to think you were leaving Saturday. No worries!
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