FWB by Default?

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Registered: 03-03-2004
FWB by Default?
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Sat, 07-25-2009 - 11:55pm
I've been seeing a man for about seven weeks.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 12:02am

It does sound like he's less interested than he was at first.

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Registered: 05-28-2006
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 1:52am

Um... I don't mean to be nasty, but this isn't rocket science. The guy doesn't take you out, doesn't call, and is still looking for other women.

But you apparently still go and have sex with him.

Maybe he should put a big flashing sign on his lawn saying "I'm Just Not That Into You!"

Because let's face it- he's not. And you know it, you're just bumming that you gotta dump him.

Well, get it done. The sooner you dump this guy the sooner you can move on towards finding the guy who'll treat you decently and who actually wants to be with you!

DTMFA.

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Registered: 03-03-2004
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 11:00am

Sheri,


Appreciate the response.

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Registered: 03-30-2009
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 1:25pm

>>However,

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 3:15pm

In my experience, a guy who's not all that interested will never actually TELL you that, so I agree with the previous post that it's a waste of time to email him and ask him.

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Registered: 02-01-2005
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 5:14pm
If you have to ask if he's interested, then most likely he's not. By chasing him and asking him if he's interested, you've basically proven that he's not. And still having a profile up is a major red flag.
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Registered: 03-03-2004
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 10:48pm
I was inclined to agree with all of you this morning, but I emailed him anyway.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 07-26-2009 - 11:14pm

So...all that says is that he's willing to respond when you poke at him, which is par for the course.

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Registered: 06-09-2008
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 11:39am

IMHO..........your wasting your time...big time.


Move on.


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Registered: 06-07-2004
Mon, 07-27-2009 - 1:27pm

Two people who are exclusive should be off of all dating sites, period. He is keeping his options open.

He's got time to have you over for FWB activities but has lame excuses for not having taken you out on even one date? If what you want is FWB then fine but if you are looking for an LTR, it is not going to happen with this guy.

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