Geez, what's a Gal to Say???

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Registered: 05-09-2005
Geez, what's a Gal to Say???
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Fri, 09-16-2005 - 1:19pm

Okay I met a guy recently, was not physically attracted to him but he was nice although after our lunch date (first meet and greet) he called me 4 times that day to which 3 of the times I didn't answer. We chatted briefly. He then called me 3 times the next day (which of course I returned the call) and while talking he commented that he had made a copy of Mariah Carey's CD for me. We had talked about it during our meet and greet. So I said "thanks and I will get it from you the next time we see each other!" His response was "when will that be?" I said well possibly the weekend and he replied "well I work on weekends!" Now, I'm annoyed and instead of replying I said "oh sorry, but I have another call, let me call you back!" I never called back!!

I've had this happen several times -- especially with men who work nights and/or weekends. Any ideas on how to respond next time????? Seemingly if you are blowing up my phone 3-4 times a day, you would have a plan in mind of when we will be getting together. Gosh where are the men who know what they want or a bit more aggressive! (smile)

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Fri, 09-16-2005 - 1:25pm
I had a guy once tell me the only time he was EVER available to

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