Ghost resurfacing! what an excuse?!

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
Ghost resurfacing! what an excuse?!
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Wed, 02-15-2006 - 11:31pm

here ya go. What kind of respond should he get? I m sure you all are v. creative here so any ideas???
BTW this is the guy who asked if he can get my dinner "quarter dinner I shared with him he meant" and notice the Condo word comes up again!

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Sorry I haven't written in a while, I didn't mean to drop off the face
of
the planet. Life got kind of crazy and then work sent me to XXXXXXXX
for two
weeks for a course. I hope your projects are coming along great, what
are
you up to these days? I just got back into the city today and so am
doing
two week of laundry and cleaning my now dusty condo, oh how fun ;-)

Have fun,

Rob >>

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iVillage Member
Registered: 02-16-2006
Fri, 02-17-2006 - 8:30am
I wish I could be like that. My problem is I can't stop thinking about my "Rob". He does email me on occasion. I figure he's playing the field.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2003
Fri, 02-17-2006 - 10:00am
if your Rob was like my Rob trust me you will be the same!!
Ughhhhhkk
iVillage Member
Registered: 02-16-2006
Fri, 02-17-2006 - 10:19am
OK so he's not real reliable, but he is one of the only people who I have been able to open up to in 3 years. He's in great shape for 40 (I am 47 and cute too) and financially stable. His family is great and he takes his son on dates with us sometimes. Since he lives so close I am very tempted to pay him a visit but don't have the nerve. His answering machine doesn't work and we haven't spoke for 1 month. Emails are not returned. I can see him "ACTIVE" on match every day. Guess he's playing the field again.
iVillage Member
Registered: 07-20-2001
Fri, 02-17-2006 - 5:49pm
I think I would just delete his message and not respond back to him. I remember you talking about his cheapness with that one dinner or lunch date (when you didn't actually even order anything). I have found that when a guy is cheap to begin with, that is pretty much how he will be later on. I went out with a guy for years who was so tight with his $. He basically spent as little on me as possible. I "thought" that might change eventually, but it did not. Even if I was dating a guy I was really interested in, if I found that he didn't want to pay for meals out much, I'd not want to spend much time with him. I think this one is best left for someone else and pity the woman who ends up paying for his meals.
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-18-2006
Fri, 02-17-2006 - 6:31pm

Well by the time the "Ghost" resurfaces I generally don't like them anymore. So I generally don't resond to their e-mails at all as to show them that you don't even deserve the time of day.


I am a firm believer that if it is "meant to be" NOTHING OR NO ONE can stop the relationship progressing. Generally these men have ex-girlfriends or women they have hooked up with online or even in person~I believe it is all a juggling six week act unfortunately. There into you for awhile, then they meet someone else~juggle continues until he is back to pick up your pile of balls again.


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