Is this ghosting?
Find a Conversation
| Tue, 03-07-2006 - 10:57pm |
I corresponded with a guy on Lava for a week and his profile was interesting (except that he looked like my Ex.) then he never responded and I was curious to know why he stopped emailing soI email him and asked if he found someone interesting and that I would be happy if so kuz it is sign that OLD is working for someone. I could see that he read my message but he never replied. so I said next as usual! but 2 months later "yesterday" he emails me to say that he was traveling like CRAZY and had not had time to check Lava and wonder if I m still interested in chatting?
I m sure it is not travel. because in two months he could spare 5 min to send a brief reply.
Anyhow, I know that he may have been dating someone and it did not work out. I kind of have the impression that he did not want to date many girls and this is why he stopped responding to me which is a good thing but I also think he ghosted and the rule is not to give a ghost the chance to ghost again. So what would you do? ignore the msg? chat and see what happens? or meet soon b4 another ghosting takes place? ;)
So far 3 guys ghosted on me and two came back after a month and this one after 2 months. I did not reply to the first two.

Being new to this board can you explain "ghosting" to me???
God Bless
Are you interested? then go for it!
I just said on another thread that sometimes, sure you have to "have a thick skin" to do OLD, but sometimes that skin gets TOO thick, to where we are too easily offended or get overly defensive and such. Your telltale line is: "I also think he ghosted and the rule is not to give a ghost the chance to ghost again."
I say "Rules" are stupid unless YOU have your own good reasons for them.
So. Whose rule is that? Yours?
Thanks!
God Bless