Ghosting on Eharmony

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-16-2003
Ghosting on Eharmony
3
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 12:36am
I've been chatting to this guy on eHarmony. How long do you wait before you decide that he has officially ghosted? Wouldn't you think that if he wasn't interested any longer, he'd close out communication? This guy hasn't, and I know that his membership hasn't expired because he told me that he just joined.
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-11-2005
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 8:27am
Hi,
I usually write and ask them. 'Have you lost interest?' If they do not respond in a couple of days, I close the match.If they are going on a vaca, they'll just say, I won't be available for a few days and I'll be back ____(whenever). If they are interested, they'll respond right away so you won't run off.
Elaine
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-16-2006
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 10:49am
Problem with that is what if you haven't reached open communication.
heather 5-18-10
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-11-2005
Wed, 04-19-2006 - 5:16pm
Hi,
I guess I thought we were talking about the open communication stage. If I hadn't gotten there yet, I would either nudge or close...
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