Going For Testing, Prayers Needed...

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Registered: 09-08-2006
Going For Testing, Prayers Needed...
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Fri, 01-12-2007 - 11:21am

Hi all,

I'm sure some of you have read my story about my mix-up with that guy from the other state. Well, I havent spoken to him and I did go to the dr. and I have to go back this Saturday for blood tests and then next week on Wednesday for culture tests. I have to wait 3 months atleast before I can go get the "Big" test, then I have to go back again at 6 months to double check. I guess all i'm asking for at this point is for everyone's prayers that everything will turn out ok and that my health will turn out intact. I did learn a lesson from all this and the next 3 months having to wait to know anything will be HARD, to put it mildly. Please say a prayer and send good vibes my way.

Thanks,
Jacki

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 11:38am

Keeping my fingers crossed for you...I had to go for those tests once, too - when I was newly single back in '04, I had three different sexual partners in a fairly short amount of time - one was a one night stand, one I dated briefly, and one became a boyfriend...but I was foolish and didn't use any protection with them.

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Registered: 12-15-2006
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 3:09pm

It is imperative that you NOT have any sexual contact until you can confirm that you are not carrying any diseases since you are pre-disposed to unprotected sex.

Reese

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 5:07pm

I do send you positive thoughts and hope it all turns out OK. But I also hope that you truly did learn a lesson this time. You've been here before and you got here again. It shouldn't take twice to learn that lesson. Best of luck and try to remember all this the next time - but hopefully there will be no next time.

And I agree with reece - you are in a bad place right now - emotionally and physically. I don't think that you should consider ANY dating much less sexual contact for some time. Keep going to your therapist and figure yourself out before getting involved with anyone in anyway until you are free and clear. I think a 6 month break from dating would be a WONDERFUL idea for you right now.




Edited 1/12/2007 5:10 pm ET by vexer_hw

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Registered: 05-21-2006
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 5:17pm
And let's hope she doesn't talk to, let alone sleep with, the guy again. He sounds weird.
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Registered: 04-09-2008
Fri, 01-12-2007 - 7:43pm

Jacki, I hope all the tests come out negative. Our health is something we take for granted all too much.


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