Got a good wink back--whats the catch?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-27-2003
Got a good wink back--whats the catch?
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Sun, 11-20-2005 - 10:19pm

OK...

I winked at this really cute guy on match.com a little while ago...and was totally shocked out of my seat when he winked right back! I honestly didn't expect him to respond, b/c normally no one that I wink at winks back, and the only guys that wink at me are fat/bald/old/ugly/etc...

So, I went out on a limb and paid to subscribe, b/c I figured that if he just winked back, he didn't subscribe and couldn't e-mail me.

Tell me to chill out! Please! He's too cute for me, and nothing is going to come out of it, so I really need not be excited about it...

Bring me down a couple notches, will ya?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-14-2003
Mon, 11-21-2005 - 8:33am
He winked back but is he a member?
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2005
Wed, 11-23-2005 - 9:15pm

Why on earth would you assume he's too cute for you? Have some confidence will ya! If you ever do meet/talk to him, and you build him up to be better than you--it will show. Then, when that's what turns him off (because they sense it), you will chalk it up to the fact that he's too good looking for you--thus, self-fulfilling your prophecy.

And don't forget...HE DIDN'T HAVE TO WINK BACK, BUT HE DID.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-22-2005
Thu, 11-24-2005 - 1:33pm
I would suggest that if you haven't already paid, don't unless the guy continues to contact you. If you have paid, then go ahead and send him a simple message just to see if he will respond. Just be careful. They don't always continue the conversation. I have been on match for a few years and have met a few good guys but after our first date, they are not interested so they stop responding. I would also suggest that you don't get too excited to soon.
Well good luck!