Great Chemistry - Call Back?

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Registered: 12-11-2006
Great Chemistry - Call Back?
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Mon, 01-22-2007 - 6:19pm
So if you met up with a guy had great chemistry, are wondering if it's possible he's a player because he was very physical very quickly (I didn't go home with him), but really wanting to see him again, the night ended with us both agreeing we wanted to see each other again - would you email him stating you had a good time? Would you wait for him to call? Would you call him? I felt the night ended with him supposed to be calling me so I feel like I should just wait??
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Registered: 09-27-2004
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 6:28pm
I would allow him to call you because if a man is interested, he will call you. I think that this rule applies for most guys. If he was shy and a little nervous or self-conscious then I would probably email him saying you had a good time to give him that nudge to call, but it doesn't appear as if he was too nervous or shy so he will call if he wants to see you again.
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Registered: 07-21-2004
Mon, 01-22-2007 - 10:49pm

I know it's hard not to if you haven't heard from a guy and you want to hear from him...but it really is better if you sit back and see if he calls you.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Tue, 01-23-2007 - 1:22am
After a good date (UNLIKE LAST NITE, lol), i always email ONCE to say "Thanks, had a great time & would love to do it again sometime". Period. After that, I let them make the next move.
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Registered: 12-11-2006
Tue, 01-23-2007 - 11:35pm
Well, he called and we are going to meet again. Now I just have to figure out if he's a player...
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Registered: 08-09-2003
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 4:58am

E-mailing to let him know you had a great time on your date is a good idea. But, it's best to let him call you to arrange another date.

Be patient, don't smother him.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Wed, 01-24-2007 - 11:32am
It will be pretty easy to tell. If he pushes for more on the physical side again and doesn't take no easily, then you'll know he's looking for one thing.

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