On a great date then BOOM, WTF?

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On a great date then BOOM, WTF?
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Wed, 09-28-2005 - 2:07pm

I’m sure this has been posted before (heck, maybe I did) ....

For fun.....

You’re on a date, perhaps you speak on the phone first, great connection then you meet. You have a nice conversation then he tells you _____________? You’re like “no way” deal breaker.

Mine –

Happened recently – he told me he was 300 K in debt from his ex wife (nice of him to tell me upfront) and that he had nipple piercing and tattoos. He’s also a double PhD and from the surface appears more conservative but he’s not! You can’t see that tat’s or piercing with his clothes on.

One of the tattoos symbolized his dead aborted baby from his ex wife that he constantly wanted to be reminded of for all of eternity. OK, it’s great he thinks about that soul that is gone but to me it’s a bit MORBID to be advertising it on your body. For some woman he’ll be a great soulful catch no no doubt but for me....NEXT.

Anyone that is into astrology he’s a Scorpio – pretty intense at least the men, ha!

It was so off the top I had to share. ;-)

SP

 
 
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Registered: 10-26-2004
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 12:02am

Hi SP,

Guess no one told this guy that you only get One piece of baggage, and it Must be small enough to fit in the overhead bin during the flight of Life!

I am sorry this happened to you,and I think this meets your Quota of Quazies, so it is about time you met a really great guy..just Intuition! :)

He is Exactly why Ding! Next! was created!!!

take care.

Truly,
Cupcake

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 8:06am
Very intense, and dare I say, a little too intense. Oh my.
 
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Registered: 04-25-2003
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 2:43pm
Run! Run like the wind! There are so many issues and problems here to count.
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Registered: 09-29-2005
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 2:58pm
When he disclosed to you that he was 300K in debt, did you tell him you had a lot in common because you just filed for bankrupcy a few months ago?
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Registered: 03-18-2005
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 3:48pm
You have me confused with someone else
 
 
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Registered: 06-26-2005
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 3:59pm
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I am a scorpio. You are so right. LOL. about being possesive I dont know about that.I guess I am too evolved to be possessive.
However I was 21 before I realised not everybody relishes the revenge they will take on their transgressors for petes sake i actually thought I had to have my revenge before even thinking of forgiving. Now that I am more spiritual I do try to forgive and well the forgetting is a bit harder. Every scorpio i have ever met is like me vengeful,loyal and will keep that score to the death. and indulge to excess be it sex, alchohol, food luckily I have never liked alchohol, was raised in a culture where women are not exactly encouraged to pass 'it' around freely and though I love food am aware of the havoc it will wreak to my nice figure so I indulge and run like the wind to burn it off. LOL
And guess who the biggest sceptics are when it comes to horoscopes ? you guessed right. scorpio. 'cause it has nothing good to say about us anyway so most of us dont believe in it.
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Registered: 04-12-2005
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 4:44pm
I think your right...the stories match...primate tail...HA!
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Registered: 04-19-2004
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 4:46pm

Not that it's anything to be ashamed of, there are plenty of people in this country in debt and I'm one of them thanks to a divorce...

I think we should have a welcome mat with the new posters on the board I haven't seen you before.

Anyhow, SP I think maybe the tatoo is symbolic for him, I too was picturing an aborted fetus on his arm and it wasn't a pretty picture, but now that you say it's a chinese symbol then I can see someone doing that to remind himself etc.

Now the pierced nipple would be a little much for me. LOL Although I like Scorpios...so it might be a wash.




Edited 9/29/2005 4:56 pm ET ET by sniffle_sally
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Registered: 02-15-2005
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 5:09pm

I dated a dude for a while who has both his nipples pierced - I loved it. It made certain things pretty interesting. :P


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Registered: 04-19-2004
Thu, 09-29-2005 - 5:13pm
I think I'd be skeeved out...I had a guy hit on me once and his belly button was pierced and I was like..umm are you sure you like girls? lol


Edited 9/29/2005 5:13 pm ET ET by sniffle_sally