Great News!!!!

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Registered: 04-11-2003
Great News!!!!
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Mon, 07-14-2003 - 7:12pm
Great news everyone! The guy I mentioned in my earlier post that I really liked just emailed me, and he called me 10 minutes later. I sent him an email Saturday night after my meeting with that guy I did not like, and asked him if he still wanted to get together sometime. Well he does! He is planning a trip to see me next week or the week after, his work keeps him busy, and he lives 100 miles from me. We met july 4th in person, after meeting on match.com, and had great chemistry, great conversation, and I really like him. I had thought he did not want to see me again because I had not heard from him, so I took the chance and emailed him Sat. So I guess what they say about not calling, emailing after the first date doesent always apply, if the guy is really interested you will not scare him away, if he is not interested it will not matter anyway. It obviously worked for me! So wish me luck, and good luck to you all!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-14-2003 - 7:36pm
Good luck and what I would do, going forward, is let him do all the pursuing from now on - but that's just me.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 07-14-2003 - 7:57pm
Good, I'm glad you heard from him. However, definitely keep your hopes and expectations in check...it's been my experience that a guy who is really interested will contact you right away, so there will be no need for you to contact him. I don't think it *hurt* in this case (nice to hear my advice quoted back to me ;-)), but it will be interesting to see over time if he turns out to be really gung-ho or just somewhat.

I definitely agree with Deena...let him take the lead from here on out.

Sheri

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Registered: 04-16-2003
Tue, 07-15-2003 - 11:44am
Oh, so happy for you! Well, have fun, and remember you must keep us posted.If things work out, then you will be yet another on line success story. Go you!!!!


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