Grumble, grumble

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Grumble, grumble
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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 8:31am

The saga continues...sort of.

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 10:16am
I agree. Usually it's a good idea to let it go, but there are times when people just need to be called to the carpet for acting like a schmuck. Hmmm, I can come up with some snotty comebacks from time to time, I'll think about it and let you know! There's got to be something you can say! :-)


Edited 3/7/2006 10:50 am ET by vexer_hw

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 10:32am

Honestly, what would be the point? At this juncture, I would think it would be enough to say you're not on the same page. Forcing the point on him will not teach him anything, will only put you into a debate about it and will continue the drama.


The two of you have very different viewpoints on time and that's fine, no one is right here... so personally I would drop it and let it go.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 11:12am

You could try, but he won't "get" it. I wouldn't bother...just send him a one-liner.

Sheri

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Registered: 07-21-2004
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 12:08pm
Yeah, I guess it won't do any good to say anything.

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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 12:35pm
You could get in a little zinger of saying that you don't think your schedules are compatible.

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 1:33pm
I would go with a very flat, "we are not a match". There is something wrong with this guy.
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Registered: 08-21-2002
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 1:37pm

Stacey -


I would just tell him that y'all aren't going to work out. It sounds like he just wants to monopolize your time and have you be a home body waiting at home for him.


God Bless and Good Luck

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Anne
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Registered: 07-20-2001
Tue, 03-07-2006 - 3:05pm
I'm curious if his meaning of "hanging out" means he wants to ask you out. If so, he just needs to go ahead and ask you out, preferably on a night when you are free. Is he only talking to you online or is he calling you on the phone as well? He's assuming a lot if he thinks you should just stay home and wait for him to call.
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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 3:22pm
I agree!!!

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Tue, 03-07-2006 - 3:24pm

He sounds like he is a "poor me" type, he tried really? that was his big attempt at asking you out? An email that says "How are you" that was his big asking you out email and then an email saying he tried, that was his big giving it the old college try, well good grief, he's a real go getter isn't he????

Yep shelve him.

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