guys dropping off the face of the earth

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Registered: 03-27-2003
guys dropping off the face of the earth
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Sat, 09-24-2005 - 7:30pm

You know, this is really starting to tick me off...
I've been talking to several guys thru e-mail and IM, but 2 main ones regularly. One I'll call "B", that I've been chatting with for about a month or so, sent me an e-mail before I left on vacation that said, "I lost my voice at the game Saturday, but let me know when you get back and I'm sure I'll have it back and I'll call you." I got back, e-mailed him to let him know I was back, and said, "Wanna call me tomorrow?" His response was, "Sure will!" This was a week a go, and I haven't heard anything from him since.

Then last week I got an e-mail from "J" on Saturday. I responded on Saturday, he e-mailed back on Sunday, I responded on Sunday, he e-mailed on Monday, I responded on Monday, he e-mailed on Tuesday, I responded on Tuesday...and haven't heard from him since.

Why do guys think it's OK to just stop e-mailing girls with no warning? If you don't want to talk to me anymore, just tell me! I won't be heartbroken--I've never even talked to you in person! It's just annoying to write an e-mail with questions trying to get to know someone, and wait and wait and wait for an answer, then never get one.

COWARDS!!!

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Registered: 05-12-2005
Sat, 09-24-2005 - 10:38pm
WHo cares really? It's just the process you go through. It's not like any of these guys mean anything, and if they do you are investing too much into it.
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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 09-25-2005 - 9:04am

I think it's part of the process.

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Registered: 04-19-2004
Sun, 09-25-2005 - 11:19am
Guys aren't the only ones who pull the disappearing act, a lot of women do too.
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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sun, 09-25-2005 - 12:06pm

Sorry to laugh, but it just hit me that way. I felt just like you at first! Now, I really don't care much about the little things. :) Re: Last night, a guy showed me his profile...sent it through an icebreaker....and I looked and saw it was someone I had seen the profile of several times before and he keeps trying new pics out. Well, I never thought he was cute. But the latest pic was okay. @@ Now, mind you, I have no pic posted...So, he then started to hound me for a pic. I gave in, not caring...and sent it through email. Well, *no* response. He didn't like the pic. I thought it was hilarious! Really! I mean, I was not interested in him to begin with! HAHA! It is soooo funny sometimes. Next time, I am going to ignore these people...but I get lured in because they seem desparate. Sorry I digressed! But OLD is a weird place. You will get use to it!

Sara