Guys that won't give up
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|Mon, 06-01-2009 - 7:48pm|
We've all talked about how it's better to just not respond to someone you're not interested in, rather than write a "thanks, but no thanks" email. And that is what I do: no reply. Guys, isn't it obvious?
Lately I've had guys repeatedly contact me--even though I never respond. Some of them are almost begging me to meet, but others are scolding me for not contacting them. Yeah, like that's going to help their chances. I have a pretty thick skin, but the fact is, it does bother me. I feel badly for them, I do. Perhaps it raises those awful concerns of being "too picky." But I just don't have the emotional energy to meet lots of guys, especially if I know we have nothing in common or he's way too old for me or lives in another state or I'm just not digging his NASCAR T-shirt.
Does anyone else have this happen?