Had a first date, now what?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-21-2008
Had a first date, now what?
Fri, 01-29-2010 - 9:22pm

Okay so I just had a first date with a guy I've been emailing for about 10 days.

Avatar for northwestwanderer
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 01-29-2010 - 10:35pm

I would not send an email.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2009
Sat, 01-30-2010 - 10:05am

Sounds like a pleasant evening, but frankly it doesn’t sound like there was chemistry or that either of you are that excited about spending more time together.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2009
Sat, 01-30-2010 - 9:21pm

i hate it when there's no clear cut sign of attraction.

Be with someone who knows what they have when they have you!

Avatar for floridagirl52
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-16-2006
Sun, 01-31-2010 - 8:34am

I agree with Sheri, but I think he can still be interested, even if he didn't ask you out on another date while on the first date. If both parties are interested, then planning another date while on the first would be ideal. But, I think both people can be nervous, and still processing the evening, and may not want to jump right in and plan another date while on the first one.

Best of luck.