a hang up

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Registered: 11-02-2005
a hang up
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Fri, 01-20-2006 - 10:17pm
so this new guy that ive been talkin to online mentioned to me tonite something about an ex. it was that "they still have feelings for eachother but she had to move away and didnt want to do the long distance thing, but there is that chance they could get back together someday, but hes not gonna wait around, ya know?". i dont know what to think about all of it, part of me says if hes not over her then why should i bother, but another part of me says that maybe i should give him a chance. i dont want to try to be the "life changer" or anything. he seems like a really awesome guy and we do have a lot in common, i think im gonna keep talkin to him. because even if it doesnt go anywhere, id love to be his friend.
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Registered: 09-09-2003
In reply to: nicki8705
Fri, 01-20-2006 - 11:24pm

but you havent met him yet. I d say cut your losses and move on. You dont know the guy so dont invest more time in someone who is not 100% single. I m sure you will meet someone as intresting but single if you wait enough. From my experience there are always interesting guys out there. Everybody is doing online dating so the market is really big.
If what I say makes any sense to you that is...

He might be still in a relationship but he is "considering" cheating or securing someone before dumping his GF... dont take a chance with someone you dont know and you have nt developed any feelings for yet

Good luck

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Registered: 05-31-2005
In reply to: nicki8705
Sun, 01-22-2006 - 11:26am

I would definitely next him. You know that saying that within the first few hours of meeting, a person will tell you all the truths you need to know about him/her? Well you just received the truth so don't bother trying to see past it. You have to protect yourself here.


Hope this helps.


Kerry