Has anyone had this happen to them??

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-24-2005
Has anyone had this happen to them??
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Mon, 10-24-2005 - 11:52pm
I first met this particular man back in December 2004. We seemed to hit it off as we e-mailed and spoke on the phone several times. However, we would only see each other about once a month. I took my profile off the site we met on in March. I didn't hear from him after that. However, I put it back on in August and lo and behold, who should be the first one to send me a messsage, but this same man. We have gone back to things the way they were before, however, sex has now entered the picture. I don't think this is a man I can honestly continue seeing without a commitment from him, but I don't see him making one any time soon. I'm very confused about this man as I've never experienced anything like this.
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Registered: 08-02-2003
Tue, 10-25-2005 - 1:31am

From what you say, it sounds as if this guy is just wanting to have a fun and casual time with a bunch of women. He obviously find you attractive, hence messaging you again, but if he isnt willing to leave his online dating thing, then he proabably isnt looking for anything serious.

I dont have a lot of experience with online dating, so I wouldnt take my thoughts as the word, but that is just the feeling i got.

Hope that helps.