Hasn't asked about me?

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Registered: 10-17-2002
Hasn't asked about me?
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Sun, 11-13-2005 - 11:02pm

OK, I realize how selfish that sounds but it crosses my mind. A guy sent me an email on Match. His profile was very, very short and had really nothing in it about himself or what he likes to do. I decided to email back and I asked a few questions about him which he answered and then made a few comments about my profile (at least he read it) but didn't ask a single question about me even though I said at the end "feel free to ask me any questions".

Is this strange? Selfish on his part? Selfish on mine? Just curious what ya'll think.

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 7:08am

Sometimes I forget to ask questions of the other person.

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Registered: 04-14-2003
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 8:55am
If a man can't ask a few questions and expects you to continue the email conversation on your own I move on. I don't worry about what their issue is.
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Registered: 01-27-2005
Mon, 11-14-2005 - 3:36pm

Hiya Vex,

Since it is still early on, I think that you should give him another opportunity to ask some questions about you. If you went on a first meet with him and the conversation was entirely one-sided that would definitely be a deal breaker. You have great instincts when it comes to people so I’m sure that your radar will pickup signals that he’s not worth your time.

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