He checked his OLD account at my place!

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He checked his OLD account at my place!
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Tue, 07-18-2006 - 2:19am

I met a guy on a recent singles trip that was thrown by one of the OLD companies. He lives Ld (me in Chicago and him in NJ) and he called me everyday once he got back. He came to visit me for the weekend (this past weekend) and trust me I was not expecting that we would be exclusive or anything at this point. But get this, he checked his OLD account from my computer when I must have been in the shower or something! He was only here for THREE days!!! I can tell because it kept his log in still in there when I went to check my account a day after he left. Okay, I wasn't thinking this guy was "the one"- but COME ON- that REALLY pisses me off. When he calls, girls what the hell would you say to him? Hey- once he's home he can play on OLD all damn day if he wants- but from MY computer! Get a blackberry! Okay someone?

More to follow on why I don't think he's "the one" ...

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Tue, 07-18-2006 - 3:08am

Tacky tacky tacky...

So why can't you say what you shared here? That you are pissed off? ...

Mark

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Wed, 07-19-2006 - 12:03am
Too bad you didnt catch him in the act! lol
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Registered: 03-18-2005
Wed, 07-19-2006 - 10:55am

I agree, it's tacky. It's one thing to check your hotmail or yahoo account but not a dating site. :-)(it's only 3 days he could wait) and yes that is why they have Blackberry's!!!

Hang in there!!!

MS. Peanut

 
 
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Registered: 05-09-2005
Wed, 07-19-2006 - 3:13pm

Ick!!!

I had a girlfriend who was having sex w/a guy she met online; and during intermission (smile), while she was watching tv, he went into the other room and got on the computer to watch porn and chat w/some other chick. She walked in on him and told him to get off the computer. He obliged and they went back to bed! Ick! Ick! Ick!

I told her she was desperate! I would have put my clothes on and left immediately.

These guys are Jerks; but they won't change as long as woman tolerate the behavior!

Ick! Ick! Ick!

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Registered: 04-02-2005
Wed, 07-19-2006 - 3:27pm
I know its gross- but girls- A GOOD COME BACK PLEASE!!! I can't tell you how many girls just say "don't return his calls" - and then, guess what- they never get it! I believe in being UPFRONT! Because if they don't hear it, it definately doesn't register!
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Registered: 03-18-2005
Thu, 07-20-2006 - 10:53am

Either just ask him straight out why he logged in at your house to a dating site or do what you did with that other guy you dated who was dating your friend just say this guy logged into jdate at my friends house who was visiting her for the weekend, can you believe that? And when he goes wow that's tacky say yeah that's why I was surprised it was you, ha! Either way, it won't go well and he won't feel comfortable. I know you want to teach this guy a lesson but honestly they never learn, but if you need too I'd try those two approaches.

Cheers,
SP

 
 
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Registered: 08-05-2006
Sat, 08-05-2006 - 12:39pm

Sounds like you need to get your feelings off your chest instead of letting it go. Otherwise it will bother you forever. So I would call and tell him straight up...just how tacky and offensive it was for him to log on to a dating site at your place.

Then count your blessings that you found out early on that he is an immature jerk.