He gets two points for not ghosting...

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Registered: 10-02-2003
He gets two points for not ghosting...
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Tue, 11-03-2009 - 12:59pm

Got this Email from Cliff today:


Indeed, I was out of commission Sunday and still a little under the weather yesterday and took the day off of work. Sorry I did not get back to you.

sooooobig
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 4:31pm

Oh man, that just bites. I even felt a little stab in my heart reading his email. OLD is just so difficult when it doesn't work, so easy when it does....

I'm sorry.

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Registered: 05-06-2008
Tue, 11-03-2009 - 7:02pm

That stings, especially when he basically 'chose' the other one over you. While I can appreciate him not ghosting, too, it still feels icky, I am sure.

I've had guys email "If this doesn't work out, can I call you?" and I never know what to say, but that has usually happened before I actually met the guy face to face. I never said OK, because I didn't like the idea of being a fallback girl.

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Registered: 02-25-2009
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 9:42am

Oh! Im so sorry! That sucks.


Youre right, at least he was up front. Im sorry!!!

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Registered: 10-02-2003
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 5:08pm

I sent him a nice polite email, and this is part of the

sooooobig
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Registered: 04-18-2009
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 7:18pm

Oh sobig,


be glad you dodged this bullet. That's a weird attempt at humor if you ask me. I mean, there's nothing

Don't hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.       ~Anonymous
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Registered: 10-16-2006
Wed, 11-04-2009 - 8:25pm

OK, I had been thinking, "That was a nice 'rejection' email you got the first time." I think it's pretty presumptuous of him to assume that on your next date you may have been climbing into his truck with only lingerie under your overcoat. WTF??? Why couldn't he have just left it nice and polite?

Right now I'm hating OLD.

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Fri, 11-13-2009 - 4:24pm
Hi - I tried to email you through your profile but you have that turned off, so could you please email me at relationshipscm@mail.ivillage.com or through my member profile? Thanks and have a great weekend! :)


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