He hasn't Friended me on mySpace yet
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| Mon, 09-04-2006 - 8:06pm |
I met this guy on Yahoo Personals about 6 weeks ago, and we've been dating regularly (yes, and sleeping together, too). When we first started e-mailing, I told him to look at my mySpace page for more information on me, so he knows I have a page.
Well, while goofing around last week, I found that he had just created a page of his own the day before. So I feel a little guilty, but I've been sort of "stalking" him! LOL I've been watching his page to see if any red flags pop up, b/c he hasn't asked to Friend me yet, so he doesn't realize that I know he has a page--I haven't mentioned that I know.
So far, I've found that he doesn't say that he's there for Dating or Relationships, which is a good thing (and he took his profile off of Yahoo Personals a week after we started seeing each other), and I haven't seen anything comment wise that would suggest that he was trolling there for girls (other than the fact that out of his 7 Friends, 6 of them are girls).
I know I shouldn't be spying on him like that (but who knows? Maybe he set his profile up to spy on me!) but I find it strange that he knows I have a page, and am on it every day, and he hasn't requested to be my Friend yet...
What do you think?

I think you're thinking wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too much! Guys don't think like us, remember that. Nothing means nothing. Trust your guts and so long as they're not talking, cool.
Have you taken your profile down yet?
Answers to both questions...LOL
Yes, I took my profile off of Yahoo Personals when I saw that he did.
And
I don't want to Friend him b/c I don't want to freak him out and make him think that I'm taking over every facet of his life. I don't want to appear too eager...I'm letting him take the lead on this one...
Hmmm...I think I may have had a moment of being right...Possibly...but I'm not going to swear to it...
Jason just called me, and we were talking, and we got a few moments of serious conversation in. Well, out of nowhere, he started telling me this story about how a client of his was talking today about how she keeps this journal in her e-mail, and she thought that her boyfriend might have gotten into it and read it, because some certain issues that she talked about were addressed. And he was saying how the more he thought about it, the more he thought that maybe that was a good way to communicate...by reading someone's true feelings in writing, because it's more open and honest when you think you're writing something that no one else will see.
So now I'm thinking that he IS looking at my mySpace, and reading my blogs. The last 2 I've written have been about him, indirectly, and I wrote them without the intention of him ever seeing them. But in tonight's conversation, he seemed like he had let down just a little bit of his wall, just a little more, so I'm thinking that he read them, and got a glimpse into my feelings, and now he's softening.
Am I crazy? I just can't see why he would even bring that conversation up if it wasn't pertinent to me/us...