Is he into me

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Is he into me
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Wed, 07-12-2006 - 1:49pm
Ok I met this guy on Line and he is great , we talk averyday on MSN and call eachother but mostly I call him anyway, last night he called me to tell me he wasn't going to be home from 3 days cause of his job ( he is a truck driver ). I was surprised that he called me to tell me that , so what does that mean ? We are meeting for the first time on saturday after taking on the MSN and the phone for a month and a few weeks, I really like him but how do i know if the feelings are mutual.
Simmy
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Registered: 05-31-2005
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 2:32pm

I wouldn't read too much into him calling to tell you he won't be around. I usually let the friends that I talk to daily know that I won't be around if it's for an extended period of time.


As for him liking you, only time will tell. Honestly all you like is what he's presented to you--it will take a first meet to know if what you've gotten to know about him still attracts you in person. So personally, I would wait until you see if that chemistry is also there in person. I have a feeling that if it is, you won't even have to ask if he's into you.


Hope this helps.


Kerry

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 3:27pm

I would be suspicious of him, honestly. Maybe he thinks you're getting into too much of a routine with talking to one another. You never know what lines he may be giving you. So for all you know he's met somebody else and he wants to go out without you knowing about it?

I'm not saying not to trust him. But I am saying don't hang on every word. Definitely don't call him or contact him at all. Let him come to you. He may just be trying to let you down easy (if there's such a thing)

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Registered: 06-02-2006
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 6:57pm

I like Kerry's response the best. You two simply don't know enough about each other yet. I would think that if he told you that he was going to be out of town for three days, and he is a truck driver, that is reasonable. Short-haul drivers can easily be gone for three days, whereas long-haul drivers may be gone for a week or more. If you two are still planning to meet this weekend, I wouldn't worry about anything more than meeting this weekend, being safe, and seeing how you and your emotions are after you meet.

I think Kerry gave you great information.

Jim

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Registered: 06-15-2006
Wed, 07-12-2006 - 10:32pm
lmao, yah I think Kerri gave good advice as well but thanks for all your thoughts on it , I really do like him and no i don't think he is married and he told me honesty is a must always. Anyway I will have to let you all know what happens, i am so excited
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Registered: 06-15-2006
Sun, 07-16-2006 - 8:17am

Ok well guess what , we didn't meet Saturday , I talked to him on MSN saturday morning and he said he was to tired cause he worked late and he was going to bed so i told him i was going to go out then and I would be home around 5pm no later then 6pm. Well when i got home I called him and we talked for about a half hour on the phone and he just said he wanted to stay home and relax that he would meet me on sunday which is today , hhhhhhmmmmmmm . I asked him if he was just chicked to meet me or was not interested and he said if he wasn't interested then he would tell me, Ok I am confussed . What is going on with him, Men I tell you they confussed me. Well lets see if he meets me today ???

Simmy