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is he single?
| Thu, 03-10-2005 - 1:44pm |
I've been dating a guy from Match about once a week, very formal dinners for a few months now (6 or 7 dates) and I just can't help wondering if he's as available as he says he is.
Anything I can do?
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Hi BC,
Do you have his home number and cell number? Does he email you at the same time, oftne only late at night, or Only from the office? Have you been to His home is about the best one given here, too! Ask to GO to his home and see if he crawfishes..if he starts that backwards crawl of "umm, well, it is a mess..." then you know he might be having you as a side dish, as he already Has a main course!
Good luck!
Truly,
Cupcake
No, I haven't been to his house.
Yes, he told me he's single.
He gave me a cell phone number, but never answers when I call (I don't call very much, mostly to confirm date or if I miss his call). I never see him before 8:30pm - ever. He always comes to my town, never to his and we don't live that far apart (15-20 min). He hasn't mentioned where he works, names of any friends.
Maybe it's nothing but I'm just wondering.
Checked my internal "is he attached" questionnaire and the answer is YES!!
If you like the guy, talk to him about this situation. You want to see where he lives, you want to know what he does for a living.
Better yet, I would drop him immediately. After several months he should know whether you are a good match for him and begin to share personal information with you.
Please let us know what you decide.
amjay
Chica!
It is time you start Asking some of these questions--this info Should have come out in natural conversation by this time! Does he know these things about You; such as where you work? It sounds like he has a s.o. (significant other) that goes to work about 7:30, so that puts him on the roads soon after.
I do not push for information, but if it is not forthcoming on its' own, it does raise red flag-age with me. Time you all crossed the border, and went somewhere in His neck of the woods too!
Ask and ye shall receive!
Good luck
Truly,
Cupcake
>> He hasn't mentioned where he works, names of any friends.<<
You've been out a number of times and he hasn't said where he WORKS?
You're kidding, right? Of course he's attached if that's the case- NOBODY can go out several times without mentioning where they work.
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