He wouldn't take my phone #
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He wouldn't take my phone #
| Sun, 02-13-2005 - 9:28pm |
I called an OLD guy for the first time today. We had a pleasant chat for about 10-15 minutes. At the end of the conversation he said that I am welcome to call again. I then offered my phone # - which he declined to take. He said that he wants to ensure that I feel safe and so it's better if I call him. I said that I don't have a problem giving my number. But he said that he'd prefer if I call. When we said our byes he ended by saying, "I'll talk to you

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1. He doesn't want your number on his cell records
2. He has an incoming free cell plan or is cheap and doesn't want to call LD
3. He gets off on being chased
4. He truly wants you to be safe
5. All of the above
6. None of the above
7. Some of the above
I think it's weird. Give me $50 on #1 to win and a $ 5 backup bet on # 3 to show.
Well...I called his home phone # not a cell phone. So #1 and #2 are out.
First I called and he asked if I could call back in about 20 min. He said he'd call me except that he didn't have my number. I didn't offer it then b/c I wanted to spend a few mintues actually talking to him first so I said I'd call back.
I'm leaning towards option #3
After sleeping on it, I think the answer is "none of the above."
Hi,
Is there a Trifecta? Most people have some kind of caller id, so if he really wants to get in touch with you, he can call you. But,if you Liked him and had a Good feeling about him, call him again....
I don't know, got some "hink-age" coming through on this, and when those hinky feelings arise...one should heed them!
Do as You please though and always be safe!
Truly,
Cupcake (with valentine sprinkles today! :)
>>First I called and he asked if I could call back in about 20 min. He said he'd call me except that he didn't have my number. I didn't offer it then
Perhaps this is what he was thinking of -- figuring you weren't going to offer it and wanting to come off like a regular guy. I think it's odd enough though and would toss the number.
I blocked caller ID. After speaking to a new guy for 10-15 min I know whether or not I want to meet him. Once I decide that I want to meet I have no problem giving my number - but not before then.
I've met enough men in person to know that when both parties are interested in meeting there are no complications. You exchange a couple of emails - talk on the phone - discuss meeting -
So why is it so hard?!? I don't get it. Why are so many people online so difficult?
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