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Height Issues
| Tue, 02-22-2005 - 11:47pm |
Have any of you girls ever dated someone who was shorter/slighter than you were, and was it an issue for you? I met a guy I like in every way personality-wise, yet he is shorter/thinner than me. And I'm only 5'4", so he is pretty small for a guy. I don't know why I feel weird about it, since it seems so shallow to judge someone by their size. I've just never dated anyone smaller than me before. So I wondered if any of you all had, and how it went?

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OH, ok!!!! Sorry, I couldn't figure that one out for the life of me!
Sheri
I'm sure you have pre-requisites that important to you, height just isn't one of them. Maybe you like guys who are college educated or enjoy particular hobbies. Those preferences really aren't any different from many of our preferences regarding height.
Also, I'll be honest, the weight issue does sting sometimes. But it's a reality for me. I live in SoCal where most girls are very very tiny. I'm about an 8/10 and while I workout with a trainer, I love food so I'm never going to be tiny. I have accepted the fact that quite a few guys in the age range I'm looking for are going to pass me by because of that. But I don't fault these guys for having their own personal perferences.
We all are who we are and are attracted to different body types for different reasons. Instead of attacking the idea that someone is turned off by a lack of height, perhaps accept that person for who they are and possibly learn how other people think.
To answer the question...
I have a female friend who is 6 ft tall.
Hey, who left the door open?
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