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Tue, 07-01-2003 - 7:26pm
i'm not new to ivillage, but I am new to this board. And I'm in an interesting situation. I know this amazing wonderful man, I met him online, and he lives in Ohio. I live in CA. We are both having feelings towards eachother, which we can't act on, because I have a boyfriend whom I love with all my heart, and Jordan completly respects that. I just wonder if it is all crushville, or if things don't work out with Matt, what the chances of an online relationship working. Thanks girls.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: angelic_me
Tue, 07-01-2003 - 8:41pm
Welcome to our board Angela :) I'm glad ya stopped in, its funny seeing people I know from other boards on here! lol To let ya know, there are huge chances of it working (if things don't work out with Matt) there are several girls on here who are married to their online loves and a lot of others who are waiting for visits from their's. BUT, make sure that your positive things would be ending with Matt before you pursue anything else....don't wanna go breakin hearts now ;)

Lindsay

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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: angelic_me
Wed, 07-02-2003 - 8:40am
Just wondering...if your love Matt with all your heart, then why are you chatting with another man. You say you have feelings towards eachother, so this isn't just a friendship. Why not tell Matt about your feelings and let him move on with someone who wants him and only him. Or are you keeping Matt around in case u don't get to meet this other guy?


Kelly

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Registered: 04-16-2003
In reply to: angelic_me
Wed, 07-02-2003 - 9:14am
WEll, welcome to our humble home sister!! Well, first of all...that is a very sticky mess you are in. I would say you need to have a talk with the BF, since you are having some feelings for another. There is a reason behind the heart leaning toward another. So, ask yourself....IS there something going on in your current relationship that is making you feel for another? Is he paying enough attention to you? Does he even know about the on line guy? How long have you two been carrying on? Does he live with you?

Well, I am sure you can answer all these and more, but the real issue here is....have you met this on line guy or do you plan to? How long have you been speaking to him? Oh, and waht makes this guy so great compared to your current beau?

Just a few q's before I can access the situation. giggles. Glad to have you anywho!!!

Gail