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| Fri, 12-30-2005 - 5:33pm |
Hi,
I've lurked here for quite awhile, and now I'm in sort of a dilemma.....
I went out last night with a very nice, and personable man. The conversation was great.
I'd say he was cute, but I didn't exactly want to jump his bones. I can see that he'd be the type that would become more attactive as I got to know him. I'm sure you all know what I'm talking about.....yes?
Well, he wants to know whether I was attracted to him or not---says he couldn't quite read me....He said that he was very attracted to me. He asked me to be candid.
How do you handle this?
I thought he was cute. He's kind of short and balding...but, his intelligence/personality made up for this to me. But, what if I never want to "jump his bones?' Would I be leading him on???
Really could use some advice.
TIA

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Couldn't you just say that you feel interested enough to get to know each other a bit better?
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I think it's already gone past that.
After he apologized etc...I told him that I'm old fashioned, and I don't think sex needs to be brought up quite so early. I said I may not be cut out for this dating stuff...
He came back and said.... " I think it's is just best to be candid. You are a delight and a very attractive woman."
Huh?
LOL :)
He sure likes the word "candid," doesn't he?
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