HELP!!! He changed his profile!!!

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Registered: 08-04-2003
HELP!!! He changed his profile!!!
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Mon, 08-04-2003 - 2:31pm
Ladies please I'm truly bewildered...I had a date on Friday afternoon and it went really well. The guy had to go back to work and he told me he didn't want to leave. He asked if there were places I knew of that we could meet again in the area. And once we were outside he told me he'd call again by 3:30 (it was about 1:50 when he told me)...we said our good-byes and he stoped and said "this was a good date" and smiled. Ok, so he didn't call Fri, Sat or Sun, which is actually ok because there was a death in my family on Saturday so I was bummed about that but here's what's confusing me...I checked this guy's profile today and he changed a few things. He went from working out occasionally to total gym rat and he went from an occasional smoker to never touch the stuff. Also, he put up his zodiac sign...mind you, I have my zodiac sign visible, i don't smoke, and i work out regularly. do you find it odd that he changed his profile after we met???? Thanks for any input!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 08-04-2003 - 2:42pm
The way he changed his profile is odd and shows that he is dishonest. That he changed his profile after one date with you is totally understandable - there is no commitment there yet and you two are strangers - he may call again, he may not - don't have any expectations. I wouldn't see him again.
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Registered: 04-16-2003
Mon, 08-04-2003 - 2:43pm
Ok, welcome. Yes, that is very odd, but the one thing I think you need to use this as a sign. Red Flag all the way. He is lying on his profile, and not just a lie about weight or height, everything. He is just a player it seems. I would seriously think about not seeing this guy again. He has not called, maybe that means he wasnt really interested in you and didnt know how to tell you. Im not real sure. That seems to be the pondering question of the year as to why a man does not call. So, blow him off and move on. That is just me. Goodluck to you and keep us posted!

Gail:)

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Registered: 07-31-2003
Mon, 08-04-2003 - 5:53pm
I think that's totally weird and I have to agree with both Gail and Deena. He's probably lying about himself and is a player. Do you really wanna get involved with that? Count yourself lucky he didn't phone back so now you don't have to avoid his calls...or if your the type who likes to speak her mind hope he calls so you can tell him exactly what you think of him and move on the next:).

M.
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Registered: 04-16-2003
Mon, 08-04-2003 - 9:18pm
Next!!! Too many fish in the sea to worry over just one. lol Goodluck girl!!


Gail:)