Help! I need an intervention, stat! LOL
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Help! I need an intervention, stat! LOL
| Fri, 12-08-2006 - 7:05pm |
So tonight I noticed the guy who blew me off deleted me from his Myspace.
| Fri, 12-08-2006 - 7:05pm |
So tonight I noticed the guy who blew me off deleted me from his Myspace.
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You know what I think sucks big time? I think it's rotten that, as women, we seem to be the ones ALWAYS working harder than the guys. Some seem to think that women are a dime a dozen. In a rural area, where I live, I KNOW that to not be the case, but I continue to have problems with men and dating. It just seems SO not worth it to me at times. I know things can change for the better in a minute. Likewise, I know they can change for the worse. It's the latter that keeps me confused and waiting for the other shoe to drop every time I meet or date someone new.
This last episode with this newest guy is a red flag for me--that he simply is not over his ex but is unwilling to admit it. So, I am not initiating any phone calls. So far, I have let him do most of the calling with me only returning calls to him that I missed. I called him maybe once without him calling first. Time will tell what will happen, but I will always believe women have a lot more invested than men do most of the time.
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I think women tend to be more "personal-connection-oriented" than men, so in most relationships the women are the ones who feel responsible for the connection.
I don't think it means that most men think women are a dime a dozen.
So would I. And if I were a guy, I'd be upset if a woman collected phone numbers and so forth while on a date with me -- and some women do.
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