Help me! online dating challenged!
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|Mon, 06-01-2009 - 6:50pm|
I have been online dating for a few months now and I am so discouraged. I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong. I know I'm probably being impatient but it seems I just keep attracting one bad guy after another. How do you qualify someone as being "ok" as in not just out for sex! It seems like there are a lot of guys online that are looking fwb partners.
My first thought is because I'm listed as separated. Does that read emotionally unavailable? Not relationship worthy? Those are my questions? Does it make look like I'm on the prowl? That isn't my intention at all! I've been separated over a year. My marriage is over and tell guys that when they ask about my situation.... but then it seems we meet, and the evening ends and I either never hear from them or they give me a reason that it wouldn't work out.
I look exactly like my pics so it can't be that. I realize attraction isn't always there in person so that's understandable.
But like right now. I've connected with this really great guy and we talked on the phone once it went terrific. We made plans to meet this Saturday and we've been emailing like non stop! But I just went online an he's on there with IM me Now on. And he hasn't even looked at my profile. This made me feel horrible. Now I'm afraid to meet him. I feel like I'm just a number already!
Any advice is greatly appreciated and if I'm making a big deal out of nothing feel free to tell me the truth.
Thanks so much!