here we go again!

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Registered: 06-27-2005
here we go again!
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Thu, 06-30-2005 - 9:16pm
I am sure, this topic was covered many times but here it goes..
I had a 1st meet with a guy yesterday. He seems to like me, we spent a long evening together and he said that he would definetely like to see me again. He said that he would call on Fri to set up plans for the weekend. HOWEVER..
He is on-line right now and I haven't heard from him all day today! I know he said that he will call on fri but in my opinion if a guy really likes you - he would call/e-mail since he is on-line anyway, right?


Edited 6/30/2005 9:21 pm ET ET by ivosoh
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Registered: 02-07-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Fri, 07-01-2005 - 4:06pm

I hadn't read the whole thread when I posted before this. The bike ride sounds fun. If you are more comfortable in your bike tights and feel that you look good in them then wear them. Otherwise wear something else. Have a great time and keep us posted!

Sunshine

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Registered: 04-19-2004
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 8:14am

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Why aren't you married??? Why does anything have to be wrong with someone because they seem to have their crap together and not married yet?

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Registered: 03-17-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 8:40am
I hate that too. Like there's something "wrong" with you if you're not married by a certain age. I think it's smart. Especially for men. Like John Mellencamp said "men aren't even close to grown up until they're 40." There's a celebrity whose words you can count on - HA! *wink*
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Registered: 06-27-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 8:57am
I was married for 9 years!
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Registered: 04-19-2004
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 8:59am
BUt you aren't married now right?? And most of these people on the online dating board aren't married right? So is there something wrong with them because they aren't. I think that way of thinking is rather insulting.
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Registered: 03-17-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 9:00am
And?
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Registered: 12-27-2004
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 9:02am

Some are also just toopicky and waiting for the "Perfect" woman and will never find her.


What's wrong with knowing what you want and not being willing to compromise? Who's to say they won't find her?

MS
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Registered: 06-27-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 9:05am
no, no. What I meant that why didn't he ever take a chance on someone. I suspect commitment issues or a person that is in a perpetual search for the "perfect one".
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Registered: 04-19-2004
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 9:08am
I don't know but I bet you could ask many people on this same board the same question right? I mean smallpeanut hasn't ever been married, would you ask her if she has committment issues. That's what I mean, just because he's 39 and hasn't ever been married doesn't mean he has to have any committment issues or that he has been searching for someone perfect, he could have had more focus on other things in his younger years and is just now ready to settle down.
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Registered: 03-17-2005
In reply to: ivosoh
Sat, 07-02-2005 - 9:10am
Why does there have to be anything "wrong" with him? I think he's smart.