hi hi - wheres jH???

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Registered: 08-22-2003
hi hi - wheres jH???
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Mon, 06-13-2005 - 9:33pm

hey everyone, how are things? where did JH go? is she ok?? I guess Ive been gone far too long! ack.

things here are ok. been working a lot lately and going through many changes. was on vacation in south america for a week, so i had a great time and now back to reality.

seems like eric is having luck. SP you got a new car, and are dating again (i love it, good at getting yourself back out there).

Ive got a prospect or crush at work right now. Nothing happening... but I think I'll finally get to hang out w/ him in a group outside of work.a group of us are going to a concern in a few weeks. Kind of what Im waiting on - to talk w/ him outside of work. Im very professional and non social at work, so I barely get a chance to talk to him during biz hours.

I put my profile up again for 2 days (im a wimp) and took it back off. I put up some good, recent pics, and they are better than ones I had before. But, Im still weary on puttin my profile back up. So maybe in a few weeks.
Anyways - hope everyons is doing ok!

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Registered: 01-31-2004
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 9:38pm
I miss reading JHoover's posts too :(
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Registered: 05-23-2005
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 9:56pm

Hi, it's me JH. I resigned as co CL a few weeks ago. I'm still around though (under this new name). I will admit that I don't post here that much anymore. In part, I don't have a lot of free time. In part - to be honest - I don't feel that I have much to say. I'm not doing OLD at the moment - and I don't plan to for a long time. I'm really not into dating right now at all.

Glad you had a nice vacation in South America. And thanks for asking about me. It means a lot to know that you were thinking of me.

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Registered: 05-23-2005
Wed, 06-15-2005 - 9:57pm
Thanks. I'm glad you liked my posts. And yeah - I don't post that much anymore. But you know, that I'm still around (sometimes) under the name I'm using here.
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Registered: 03-18-2005
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 12:11am

Welcome back - how was South America?

 
 
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Registered: 07-21-2004
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 10:57am
OMG, SP!!!!!

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Registered: 03-18-2005
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 1:11pm

Thanks.

 
 
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Registered: 07-21-2004
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 1:45pm
It's so aggravating.

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Registered: 03-18-2005
Thu, 06-16-2005 - 1:55pm

That’s why I always say it’s not me I’m worried about it’s everyone else.

 
 
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Registered: 08-22-2003
Sun, 06-19-2005 - 2:59pm

hey SP -

no offense to any "soccer moms" here but I absolutely hate driving anywhere near them. Its a total nightmare. Thank god i live in the city where I dont have soccer moms frequently drivng around. But when I go to viist my parents in the 'burbs its always the darn soccer moms not paying attn, cutting me off or going super slow - like 5 or 10 mph under the speed limit. Quite annoying.

Im sorry 'bout your car - geez that stinks. Im glad you have a + outlook on it.

As for south america, it was a great vacation. 8 days - 6 days there (2 days to fly to buenos aires) - and I loved the group I was with. One of my very dear and close friend from college was having a huge 30th bday party in BA and invited all his close friends down. 15 showed up! crazy.

Back to reality now.

So, well, the two days I had courage to try match out again - well i started emailing this guy. Hes ok i guess. Not exactly the type of person I'd date - but he was super nice and just very "chill". We're supposed to meet up this week.

Hmm concert? I think it was probably the free concert in golden gate park this w/e I was speaking about. But we decided on this festival that has swing bands playing and just outside at a park. I should be heading over sometime shortly.

hope you are enjoying your w/e. (your concert sounds awesome! i love those alernative rock bands)

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Registered: 08-22-2003
Sun, 06-19-2005 - 3:05pm

hey JH, now Joyouskaya - Im glad you are still around a little bit. I understand about resigning from CL. It gets tiring I'm sure. I hope you are ok - you sound very down right now. I understand that as well. I was crying my eyes out friday night because I felt like SUCH a loser. But I did the normal remedy, be around people who love you - friends and family. Exactly what I did Saturday and felt better by saturday night. But still feeling a bit out of it since i feel as though im the ONLY person single (which ha, isn't true) - but feels like it at times.

I was on match for all of two days - and then decided i was too wimpy to try it for real. But in that time, this guy emialed me and we're supposed to meet up next wk. He isnt exactly my type or the guy i would say things could work out with - but he is super chill. He has his stuff together (job, good outlook on life) and that is where I really should start looking to see if things would work out.

We'll see - i told him only friends first and we'll see where things go. The fact I felt i could be honest and straight up was cool. He directly addressed that comment of mine and he agreed.

But, you know if you are feeling down in the dumps with dating, etc - dont worry there is a wonderful man for you. Its just a matter of time. And trust me, I get annoyed w/ that saying but its very true. In the meantime, do the things you love to do which I am sure you are - but never hurts to hear

Keep your head girl. -Surfer