Hiding profiles
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| Fri, 11-25-2005 - 12:20pm |
I winked at this guy over the weekend on Match, and he winked back, so I e-mailed him and gave him my real e-mail address. We've e-mailed back and forth twice that way so far. I wanted to look at his profile again to get some ideas of what to talk to him about, and he had hidden his profile! (Right after I had given him my real e-mail address.)
Normally, you don't run across guys that hide their profile while they're talking to someone...do you find that odd? I'm not reading anything into it, of course, but I just find it strange, b/c a good friend of mine on Match has been dating this guy exclusively for about 2 months that she met on Match, and he just now hid his profile.
Have you ever ran into a situation where someone hid their profile when they first started talking to you? Should that be a warning flag of some sort?

I noticed the rollerblading guy I dated hid his profile after our second date, but it had to be a glitch or a temporary thing because it was back up shortly after that.
It may not be you that he his hidden the profile for - he may be seeing someone else that has requested that he do that, since the two of you are in such early stages of the process. I would wonder about a guy who hides his profile before we would even meet and have only talked a little bit.
That is why I think it is probably for someone else he is seeing, and he just wants to keep contact with others he has made additional contact with in case the relationship with the one he is with now doesn't work out and he has some backup ladies, so proceed with caution. That doesn't mean he isn't interested in you, but just may be dating someone else at this time. I hope this isn't the case though... Good luck...
Sunshine