His Crazy Family
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|Sat, 07-31-2010 - 3:09pm|
I met a guy online a few weeks ago. We've been out 4 times in the last 2 weeks and talk everyday. We have a lot in common and enjoy each other's company. He has made it clear that he is interested in me, and I feel the same way. So what is the problem, right?
He has been very open and has told me stories about his "unstable" family. Mom has been married a few times and may not be all that stable. He described his brother as a womanizer(married and divorced several times), and his sister has been in and out of rehab. I know that everyone always puts their best foot forward so I am wondering if he shares some traits like his family members. I am looking for a long-term relationship, and I don't wish to be involved with someone that isn't available or emotionally/mentally stable to have a lasting relationship with someone.
I am torn as to what I should do. I can continue to date him hoping that if he has issues they will surface, but how long might that take? I don't want to pursue a relationship that may not have long-term potential, but I may not find that out for months. Any suggestions?
Thanks in advance for your input.