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Holding Back?
| Wed, 07-26-2006 - 11:54pm |
I've been dating this guy for a few weeks now. We've gone out 3 times and are planning a 4th date for this weekend. I am assuming that he is into me otherwise he wouldn't continue to ask me out and keep in contact during the week. I am confused because he hasn't made any moves towards physical affection. I can understand that maybe he is being the perfect gentleman and taking things slow, but he hasn't even hugged me yet. I am not one to make the first move so that isn't an option. I am just beginning to think that he isn't that physically attracted to me or has some problems with physical intimacy. What do all of you think?

I wouldn't assume that's the case after only 3 dates. If it continued for another couple-3 dates, then I'd start to wonder if he just wanted to be platonic friends, and I'd probably ask at that point.
Sheri
Your question sounds like the counter to what I am asking. I guess I was thinking that only three dates was a bit premature to start becoming more physical in that approach. Of course, I know that must vary from woman to woman... thanks for the insight to my question...
Jim