Hot young things

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Hot young things
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Mon, 03-07-2005 - 7:01pm

Those of you who are looking for a serious long-term relationship - and having no luck whatsoever meeting ANYONE.....


As you browse online, do you ever get the least bit tempted to contact some hot young thang and just have a bit of fun for a while?

 

 

 

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Registered: 04-21-2003
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 7:13pm
I do contact some who are a bit young and cute, but they don't normally respond! Some young men wink at me, but I don't think they are serious about meeting me.
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Registered: 07-24-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:41pm

I have quite a few 29-33 year olds contacting me (I'm 42)... I think it's the whole "sexual prime" thing that makes them contact me. I respond basically that they are too young -- even though some of them are fairly persistent!!

The irony is that I just bought a car from an adorable 29 year old dealer who also was very relentless in flirting with me, and I've gone out with him a couple of times.

So while it would seem tawdry and cheap to do it online, I guess it's different in real life... :-)

Tracy

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Registered: 02-07-2005
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:46pm

I get contacted by the young ones through IM and through the OLD site quite a bit and I don't list their ages in my profile specifications; I know they just want to have sex with a mature lady, as Eric said previously in another post - FWB. I know it would be great sex, but I'm not into just sex - well, more of a relationship mainly, with fantastic sex to follow! ;) I just can't seem to do guys 20 years younger than myself! I know men have been doing it for years with much younger ladies, but I can't do guys my son's age - yet my son's friends flirt with me when my son goes out of the room! I asked my son about that and he said it's a status thing for young guys to be with older ladies.

Sunshine

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Registered: 07-24-2004
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:50pm

"...it's a status thing for young guys to be with older ladies."

Yes. In fact, when my 29-year old "date" told his 26-year old brother how old I was, he got a high-five!

Tracy

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Registered: 02-07-2005
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 10:59pm

Exactly Seamus on the high five, that's what they do with their friends! So to me it seems like more of conquest that has been sought after and achieved. I was somewhat drunk at a far away wedding reception awhile ago, where I knew just a few people, and a 24 year old was pursuing me most of the evening. He was a great dancer and so I danced with him, as I love to dance. Later we kissed and that, but I stopped it before it turned into more, but it would have been so easy to go there! And was he ever a great kisser! But had I not been somewhat drunk, I don't think I would have been with him at all since it felt weird when I thought about it the next day. But it sure is tempting at times!

Sunshine

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Registered: 03-20-2003
Mon, 03-07-2005 - 11:33pm
I wonder how much of that is just exacerbated by American Pie & Stiffler's mom. Like it's become an item on the sexual to-do list: bang a MILF. (Mother I'd Like to F***.)
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Registered: 02-07-2005
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 12:07am

Yeah true about the American Pie and Stiffler's Mom! Well, I guess that makes me a GMILF (Grandmother I'd like to F***) as one guy I was seeing before shared with me! I cracked up. He was 38 and had an 8 y/o daughter. I have a 3 y/o grandson and my son is also having one soon in April. I started young at 20 and had my first kid, so I am considered a young grandma. But I haven't heard the GMILF term used! ;)

Sunshine

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Registered: 08-19-2004
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 9:22am
When I first started OLD, I was so frustrated at being ghosted and getting emails from geezers (weird geezers to boot) that I thought, f--k it! I just want to get laid. So I posted a very brief profile on the Intimate Encounters section of Lavalife. Before I even finished posting the profile, I got tons of responses, which was great for my ego. I ended up dating a guy from there for a month. He ended it, doing me a favor actually. He didn't ghost; he (unlike some) had the balls to say something. He told me we had no chemistry other than sexual, and he was absolutely right.
I deleted my profile because I realized I can't do casual sex without getting emotionally involved, unfortunately.
Oh, and to return to JH's original post, he was six years younger than me. And hot :)
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Registered: 01-01-2004
Tue, 03-08-2005 - 11:34am

I have never been able to have sex with someone without having some kind of emotional attachment to them.

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