How anti-climactic
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| Tue, 04-05-2005 - 9:48am |
Last week I was contacted by someone online. We exchanged a couple of emails and then I asked if he'd be okay with talking on the phone instead. He sent me his number and I called him last Thurs. He wanted to set up a day to meet right then and there but I didn't have my schedule yet so he said he'd call on Sunday.
The next morning I received an email from him saying that he enjoyed talking to me and is looking forward to talking to me on the weekend to set up a day to meet.
He didn't call.
So...last night, in Chat I told this story and said that while I realized that it might be fruitless to do so, I was thinking of sending an email basically asking, "What's up?" but without sounding snotty . Some said to forget it and others said it would hurt.
So, after Chat I sent an email and wrote that I'm sorry that we didn't get another chance to speak but that I was still up for meeting if he was.
Good news - he wrote back within minutes saying that he still wanted to meet.
Bad news - he didn't apologize or explain why he didn't call like

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amjay, it's interesting that you have pointed this out ("losers" rarely need any encouragement).
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