How do I.....????

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2003
How do I.....????
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Tue, 05-31-2005 - 1:47pm
Hi All -
How do I let someone that I have met on line know that I am not interested? I have been Instant Messenging someone for about a week, and he had no picture on his profile (I know that is a big red flag). He seemed very nice, but now he is showing his preverted side! And I am not into that. And not to sound like I am only interested in looks but he sent his picture to me and he is not what his profile said he was....don't know what to do.
Thanks
Kristen
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Registered: 05-09-2005
In reply to: krisyg
Tue, 05-31-2005 - 2:27pm
I would send him a FINAL IM letting him know that you are not interested due to his perversion. I believe you can have a person's email blocked or removed from your IM so he is not able to contact you. Also block him your email as well if your IM name is the same! Thank goodness it's just e-mail and not your phone number!! Hope this helps!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: krisyg
Tue, 05-31-2005 - 4:12pm

Personally, I would just stop emailing and/or IM'ing him, and block him, without saying anything. But if you feel you need to, then I'd just send him a one line email saying that the two of you are not a match. But be sure to block him either way.

Sheri

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Registered: 05-16-2004
In reply to: krisyg
Tue, 05-31-2005 - 4:22pm

"You know - I just don't think that I find the connection that I'm looking for here - but I have enjoyed our chat and wish you well".


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Registered: 04-18-2005
In reply to: krisyg
Tue, 05-31-2005 - 5:51pm
I think all the poster's have covered it. I understand you don't want to be rude but he is being rude with his perverted attitude so don't feel bad. Just tell him that you are not interested and then block him. Thank goodness it's that easy! Good luck. FW