How to end a first meet?
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How to end a first meet?
| Wed, 03-23-2005 - 4:32pm |
How do you end a first meet if you are interested? Not interested? I'm not so good at ending these even though I prefer to end them first but usually feel quite awkward.

If I'm interested, I will respond favorably to being asked out again...if he doesn't do so, I may go so far as to say something like, "I had a great time, I'd love to do it again some time", but I really don't like to have to do that (and as I posted to Sparkle, my experience has been that most men who are interested will ask you out again before the 1st meeting ends).
If I'm not interested, I will say "it was nice meeting you. Take care".
Sheri
Oh, sorry, I misunderstood!
I'll usually say something like, "hey, it's been really nice meeting and talking to you but I have to go do " (and since I do most of my first meetings on weekend afternoons, I almost always DO have something I have to get to!). If I'm interested in him (and he's not completely clueless), he'll see from my warm and engaging manner that I'm not rejecting him, and that's his cue to ask me out again ;-).
Sheri