How To End It
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| Wed, 01-11-2006 - 11:58pm |
This guy and I have been online friends for a while now and the entire situation has become very confusing for me. I think he led me on at the beginning, and there's still flirting, which leads to more confusion (honestly it kinda makes me feel like the equivalent to an online FWB) - we continue to talk about meeting "one day" to see if there's a spark, but I just don't think it'll happen. I'm not a very patient person and don't think I'm cut out for this type relationship.
I don't want to be the callous jerk and just ghost, though, since we've talked almost everyday for several months. I just want more than this (from him and in general) and I don't expect it's going to happen (at least not from him)...
What's a good way to end a friendship like this without it sounding like a rejection? I mean, I'm totally into him, but I just can't take feeling like this anymore.

Dear John:
Although I have enjoyed our Internet communication, I am looking for a real-life boyfriend. For this reason I think it best that we put a stop exchanging emails so that I can focus on my search.
jubeekate
PS: I wish you and your wife the best of luck in the future
E