How long after a meet up do you.....

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2004
How long after a meet up do you.....
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Wed, 05-04-2005 - 9:15pm

wait to receive a phone call before you figure he's not going to call.

Say you have a seemingly good meet up....lots of conversation, laughter and common interests. He gives you a big hug goodbye. He emails you when he gets home to thank you and says, "Let's keep in touch (if you want) and get together again some time!"

What do you think?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-16-2004
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 12:31pm
I'm talking about a first date (after the meet). I've never done anything except sometimes shake hands on the first met.
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-07-2003
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 1:04pm

In that case going for a light kiss may help to force the issue, so to speak.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-17-2004
Thu, 05-05-2005 - 6:56pm

Nope, I haven't heard from him yet (since Tuesday night). I just couldn't figure out if the email he sent was truly a *feeler* or a nice way to say "no thanks". I have been telling myself he won't call after reading that email as to not get disappointed. I am not talking to any other people at this point. I'm running out of interesting men in my area....lol.

Thanks for your perspective.

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