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How long is long enough
| Mon, 02-06-2006 - 8:01pm |
I met a guy through Americansingles.com and we've been talking for a month. When and how should I go about meeting him for the first time. Is there a manual on what's acceptable behavior and etiquitte? I'm really nervous, what do we talk about??? He's kind of shy on the phone. There's a lot of awkward silence. HELP!!!!!!!

Welcome to the board! Here's an article with some great tips, and links to other articles.
http://www.match.com/magazine/article2.aspx?articleid=4983
The MOST important thing is to meet in a busy public place during the day and keep it short. You may not get along in person, or, if you get along TOO well sometimes you'll get a little too "caught-up" in it. Usually better to cut it short and plan an actual date! Not that you should play hard to get, but do let him court you a little... you know you're worth it!