how long on OLD

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2006
how long on OLD
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Sun, 06-25-2006 - 8:43am

I was curious as to how long people have been on OLD without any relationships. I was talking to this guy at work that used to be on there five years ago and he said when he went back on, some of the same people were still there. I was emailing this other guy from match and he said he had been on here for three years with a few dates here and there. So would this be a red flag to someone, because that person may just like the thrill of the chase or would someone think that person just hasn't met anyone that they want to be with yet. I can't imagine doing OLD for three years but who knows what the future holds. But I know that when I was on here before too, that I see allot of the same faces on here, Just curious as to what other opinions are on this.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-13-2004
In reply to: tsue4u
Sun, 06-25-2006 - 10:00am
Unless he is super busy with his work, it should be a red flag. He may just be addicted to it. OLD is a way for some guys who are not able or don't want to have regular relationships, to have "imaginary" relationships and women in their lives.