how many guys can you email

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Registered: 03-25-2003
how many guys can you email
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Fri, 11-25-2005 - 4:37pm
I have received an email from another guy (currently talking to one guy). Another guy has emailed me. I suppose it ok to email him too? Is not like I'm dating the first guy already (he's the one who gave me his number).
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Registered: 02-07-2005
Fri, 11-25-2005 - 5:06pm

Keep the emails and meetings going. Go with as many as you feel comfortable talking with! The trick is to keep them straight at who does what, etc.! Sometimes I jot down their names and a few things we've talked about to keep them straight.

I usually have guys in different stages, some I'm emailing with, other's I'm at the phone stage with, and others are ready for the face to face meet. I try to get all of these stages completed within about 2 weeks and try not to email or talk on the phone too much, so no false expectations are made. It doesn't matter anyway how much you talk to a person beforehand, since it's at the face to face meet that you will know if there is attraction there or not.

Don't feel bad about juggling more than one guy, many of them are doing it also!

I'm in a slump right now though and only have one meet scheduled for Saturday afternoon. But as I've done this for awhile now, I've learned to be more selective and only meet guys who I really think have some potential. I don't bother emailing, talking, or meeting the guys that don't interest me much. It gets easier the more you do it!

Good luck to you....

Sunshine