How many meets in a month on average?
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|Wed, 08-26-2009 - 7:44am|
Hello fellow online daters. I'm just curious:
1. How many first meets (not dates) do you have a month, on average?
2. What is the population of your metro area?
3. Do you think OLD is "a numbers game"? Explain.
Regarding the "numbers game": I hear this a lot, and I understand the value of meeting many men, but how indiscriminate are you in meeting? I ask this because I do hear from a lot of men (I'm surprised at this after two years online) but the majority have NO appeal to me--why subject myself to an uncomfortable meeting with a subsequent "rejection"?
Here are my answers:
1. Less than one a month (I met 4 last year, didn't date any of them--none asked--have met two so far this year, dated both)
2. One million