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|Mon, 11-09-2009 - 1:13am|
Saturday I went on a first meet with a rather shy guy who indicated that he wanted to take things slow even before we met. The meeting went well, and he wrote me a brief note on Sunday saying he had enjoyed my company and exchanging personal e-mail addresses. Already on Saturday he had indicated that he wanted to see me again if I was willing. I had said I was.
I wrote back with my regular e-mail address saying I'd enjoyed his company also and looked forward to hearing from him again. Because I am a chatty person I made a brief comment about a minor domestic incident. He replied later today with a remark about the incident, but not adding anything to the "dialogue." Then he says "have a great week."
My question is, how soon should I reply to this brief e-mail? Should I reply at all?
We haven't been on a real date, just the first meet. He may never ask me out for real, though he said he would. (You know how it is.)
In other words, I'm trying to get a sense of how best to proceed with a guy who is more quiet and cautious than others I have met. I don't want to overwhelm him, but on the other hand I don't want him to feel that I am not interested because I didn't make an effort to write back.